Michael HaagMay 21, 20201 minEpisode 51: We Are What We DoIn this episode we break down the perceived barrier between doing and being and examine how what we do makes up who we are and how even...
Michael HaagMay 1, 20201 minEpisode 50: Outcomes from Polyamory’s MeTooIn this episode we look at the final update from the FV survivor pod and an update directly from the survivors, including the updated...
Michael HaagApr 18, 20201 minEpisode 49: A Cocktail of Tips with Robin BeatchWe are very lucky to have polyamorous relationship coach and author Robin Beatch join us this week. We discuss a wide range of topics,...
Michael HaagApr 4, 20201 minEpisode 48: Finding Ourselves in Uncertain TimesThis week we dive into how large life changes outside of our control affect our sense of self and how we can reclaim that to the best of...
Michael HaagMar 21, 20201 minEpisode 47: Birthdays!We recorded this episode about togetherness and celebrations before the Coronavirus descended on us. Sorry about that, but it's still...
Michael HaagMar 7, 20201 minEpisode 46: Sharing Spaces After a BreakupThis week we talk about the difficult but ever-present issue of sharing social spaces with ex partners, as well as navigating how to...
Michael HaagFeb 22, 20201 minEpisode 45: Black Poly PrideThis week Chanee Jackson Kendall, co-founder of Black Poly Pride, drops by to tell us about their Black Poly History push for Black...
Michael HaagFeb 8, 20201 minEpisode 44: Tail Over TeakettleAs Valentines approaches we discuss internet dating options: how to set up your profile to maximize matches; and why you probably don’t...
Michael HaagJan 25, 20201 minEpisode 43: Two Questions One EpisodeThis week we had two wonderful listener questions, but they were both too long to be an intro and not long enough to be full episodes, so...
Michael HaagJan 10, 20201 minEpisode 42: Effort and GratitudeIn this episode we discuss, well, basically every facet of effort and reviving effort, or gratitude. We look at why we might be resentful...
Michael HaagDec 27, 20191 minEpisode 41: Family LiesIn this episode we use the holidays as a framing device to do a pretty deep dive into when and how it is morally acceptable to lie. We...
Michael HaagDec 7, 20191 minEpisode 40: Professor Sex and STI’sThis week Angel Russell, aka Professor Sex, joins us to discuss the ethics of STI testing, treatment, and disclosure, as well as best...
Michael HaagNov 23, 20191 minEpisode 39: Let's Talk Young Poly CarolinasI finished this episode after working a 15-hour shift installing tile. That is how much I love all of you. If there are any mistakes or...
Michael HaagNov 9, 20191 minEpisode 38: Book RecommendationsOne of the questions we get the most is what books we’d suggest for new listeners and for further reading. This week, Mandee, Sarah and I...
Michael HaagOct 25, 20191 minEpisode 37: Let's Talk CheatingThis week Sarah Neal drops by again to help us tackle our first stab at the topic of cheating. We look at why people might cheat and how...
Michael HaagOct 11, 20191 minEpisode 36: Hidden Disabilities and Polyamorous CommunitiesThis week we respond to a listener question about how to work with neurodivergent members of our communities in a way that benefits...
Michael HaagSep 28, 20191 minEpisode 35: What is Free Will Anyway?Most people say they have it, but have you ever asked yourself what you mean when you say you have free will, what it means, or why it...
Michael HaagSep 6, 20191 minEpisode 34: How Believing In Good And Evil is AntisocialThis week we talk in depth about the origins and functions of moral language: words like “good” and “evil”, “bad” and “good”. These...
Michael HaagAug 23, 20191 minEpisode 33: The One Eggplant PolicyShort version: We’ve got a survivor pod update, and we talk about the seemingly ever-present one eggplant policy. Long Version: It's way...
Michael HaagAug 22, 20191 minEpisode 32: Intentional MetamoursJoin us this week as we looks at why we explain why we don’t talk as much about metamour ethics as maybe you think we should, and what we...