In this episode we break down the perceived barrier between doing and being and examine how what we do makes up who we are and how even...

In this episode we look at the final update from the FV survivor pod and an update directly from the survivors, including the updated...

We are very lucky to have polyamorous relationship coach and author Robin Beatch join us this week. We discuss a wide range of topics,...

This week we dive into how large life changes outside of our control affect our sense of self and how we can reclaim that to the best of...

We recorded this episode about togetherness and celebrations before the Coronavirus descended on us. Sorry about that, but it's still...

This week we talk about the difficult but ever-present issue of sharing social spaces with ex partners, as well as navigating how to...

This week Chanee Jackson Kendall, co-founder of Black Poly Pride, drops by to tell us about their Black Poly History push for Black...

As Valentines approaches we discuss internet dating options: how to set up your profile to maximize matches; and why you probably don’t...

This week we had two wonderful listener questions, but they were both too long to be an intro and not long enough to be full episodes, so...

In this episode we discuss, well, basically every facet of effort and reviving effort, or gratitude. We look at why we might be resentful...

In this episode we use the holidays as a framing device to do a pretty deep dive into when and how it is morally acceptable to lie. We...

This week Angel Russell, aka Professor Sex, joins us to discuss the ethics of STI testing, treatment, and disclosure, as well as best...

I finished this episode after working a 15-hour shift installing tile. That is how much I love all of you. If there are any mistakes or...

One of the questions we get the most is what books we’d suggest for new listeners and for further reading. This week, Mandee, Sarah and I...

This week Sarah Neal drops by again to help us tackle our first stab at the topic of cheating. We look at why people might cheat and how...

This week we respond to a listener question about how to work with neurodivergent members of our communities in a way that benefits...

Most people say they have it, but have you ever asked yourself what you mean when you say you have free will, what it means, or why it...

This week we talk in depth about the origins and functions of moral language: words like “good” and “evil”, “bad” and “good”. These...

Short version: We’ve got a survivor pod update, and we talk about the seemingly ever-present one eggplant policy. Long Version: It's way...

Join us this week as we looks at why we explain why we don’t talk as much about metamour ethics as maybe you think we should, and what we...