[ 253 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] In this episode we discuss, well, basically every facet of effort and reviving effort, or gratitude. We look at why we might ...

[ 418 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] In this episode we use the holidays as a framing device to do a pretty deep dive into when and how it is morally acceptable t...

[ 536 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week Angel Russell, aka Professor Sex, joins us to discuss the ethics of STI testing, treatment, and disclosure, as well...

[ 469 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] I finished this episode after working a 15-hour shift installing tile. That is how much I love all of you. If there are any ...

[ 424 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] One of the questions we get the most is what books we’d suggest for new listeners and for further reading. This week, Mandee,...

[ 563 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week Sarah Neal drops by again to help us tackle our first stab at the topic of cheating. We look at why people might ch...

[ 494 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we respond to a listener question about how to work with neurodivergent members of our communities in a way that be...

[ 558 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] Most people say they have it, but have you ever asked yourself what you mean when you say you have free will, what it means, ...

[ 615 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we talk in depth about the origins and functions of moral language: words like “good” and “evil”, “bad” and “good”...

[ 708 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] Short version: We’ve got a survivor pod update, and we talk about the seemingly ever-present one eggplant policy. Long Versio...

[ 708 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] Join us this week as we looks at why we explain why we don’t talk as much about metamour ethics as maybe you think we should,...

[ 654 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we look at handling NRE when you are on the outside looking in. Which is to say, how to deal with when your partner...

[ 710 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] Our 30th episode was taped live with our fans at the 2019 Atlanta Poly Weekend. We discuss the structure of jealousy and answ...

[ 741 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we talk about how NRE (New Relationship Energy) highjacks your body and mind. We deal with questions about how you ...

[ 533 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] In the last few weeks the first two responses from Franklin Veaux’s “accountability pod” and a veritable cornucopia of new ma...

[ 564 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] In this episode we introduce our new format, discuss the newly released survivor stories from the polyamory’s #metoo survivor...

[ 610 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] Join us for our 1 year anniversary as we ask how we can manage leadership dating community members in a safer way. We’re very...

[ 698 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we are incredibly excited to have had the opportunity to talk with Samantha Manewitz of the Polyamory’s Me Too Surv...

[ 470 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we cover the newest Polyamory’s #MeToo Survivor Pod update. Then we address how to find the line between telling ot...

[ 541 listens as of 1/14/2020 ] This week we discuss evaluating who and when you should come out to with our guest Sarah Neal who provides a set of questions...